Why I founded Safe Haven Education
My own case was dismissed by police as a relationship issue. The perpetrator subsequently escalated to violence against his next partner.
I founded Safe Haven Education because that should not have happened. Not to me, and not to her. The evidence was there. The pattern was clear. The system just did not have the tools to see it.
PatternShield™ is built to change that.
I am looking for survivors who:
Experienced pattern-based, non-physical coercive and controlling behaviour
Reported to police and received No Further Action or an inadequate response
Still have their own documentation, including messages, timelines, emails, or correspondence
Have kept any communications from or about the police response
You do not need to have a complete file. You do not need to have done everything right. You just need to have evidence that a pattern existed.
Participation is completely voluntary. Everything is anonymised. You can withdraw at any time.
Please email deniz@safehaveneducation.org with the subject line:
PatternShield™ Evidence: [Your Name]
I will respond within a few days with more information and a simple consent form before anything else happens.
If you are currently in crisis, please contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247 (free, 24 hours).